Jeremih "Birthday Sex" Video Girl Controversy


I was reading Necole Bitchie yesterday and saw that there are apparently fans that are mad that he chose a light-skinned girl as his video chick vs. using a dark-skinned girl or at least a black girl. One of the quotes from the blog said

“I don’t really see how her kisses could taste like “Hersheys” but the vid was a good look. He is very cute & the tattoo is very sexy.”

I don’t particularly have an issue with him choosing a light skinned girl. When he was on 106 & Park he stated that she was Brazilian. My thing is that it’s easy for them to use a black girl in a misogynistic way. Our fat booty’s all out in some video, hell practically every damn video.

It would have been nice if this young black man. Brand new urban act. #1 on the R&B/Hip-Hop Charts had decided to go with a black girl as his lead in his debut video. For once we have a song about someone catering to us on a very special day and it just would have been nice to see him give his own that honor.

Now here is Exhibit 1: Pictures I found of the original video online featuring obviously black girls gyrating and posing with barely any clothes on. Vastly different from the video that hit the airwaves. The video is very tasteful and sweet. However, one of these ladies below could have played the part just as well and more accurately given him a “Hershey’s kiss”
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Posted by cmongood   @   3 June 2009

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Jun 21, 2009
3:56 am
#1 Anonymous :

It's a punch line. When he said Hershey's he was talking about tasting the chocolate covered strawberries she just ate. When he said where you want your kiss, he's talking about going down on her. He isn't talking about a dark chocolate black woman, are you guys slow? WTF?

Jun 22, 2009
9:49 pm
#2 Anonymous :

LOL WTF who cares? does it mean all black guy's have to get a black girl who cares wow

and hershey kiss does not mean you have to be black?…wow

Jun 24, 2009
7:22 pm
#3 Anonymous :

i luv dat my niga didnt put a dark guh in his video. like obama says time fo a change..it aint all bout black guhs anyways

Jun 25, 2009
10:30 am
#4 Anonymous :

wow dont even talk about this chick shes staright sexy lol and wats the difference of what skin color she is and when he talks about hersheys kiss it has nuttin 2 do wit a black chick lol

Jul 5, 2009
3:53 am
#5 Anonymous :

LOL FUCKING RACIST ARTICLE

Jul 19, 2009
11:14 am
#6 Heather Cartier :

This is such an ignorant article. It's the 21st century. Not every african american man has to be with an african american woman. People should see past race and surround themselves with people that have the same values and goals in life.

But that's beside the point. It's just a video and he chose a girl that was sexy. And what might be sexy to you might not be sexy to him or the casting directors for the video. The whole point of the video is to complement the song and get people watching which it obviously did because you are writing an article about it.

Jul 27, 2009
10:49 pm
#7 Anonymous :

who cares if shes light skinned or dark skinned. its a great video regardless of the skin color. people who are gonna write on their page because hes a black artist with a light skinned woman in his video is a problem for you…you must just be jealous he didn't put you in his video. probably some of the black girls that auditioned for the video were in other videos but in a scandalous way and this is tasteful music video that didn't need a "video vixen" shaking her a** in other videos in his

Aug 5, 2009
12:07 am
#8 Anonymous :

light skinned women are sexier. he did the right thing. the girl in the video is so damn sexy

Aug 5, 2009
6:23 am
#9 Anonymous :

What a double standard! Black people as a whole want to be recognized as equals which means *we all need to look past each other's ethnicity, but then it's a problem if a black man is with a white woman, or if a white man is with a black woman. This is a fucking racist article. Just because it was written by a black person doesn't mean it can't be a racist article. Oh and BTW, look at how "well-written" this article is. One can see the author's lack of intelligence, education, grammar skills, etc.

Aug 7, 2009
4:43 pm
#10 Syd :

I do not get why its such a big deal. Black girls are in a lot of music videos. Not everything needs to be about us. Jeez give the guy a break and get a life. Just because he black dont mean he needs a black girl in the video. Hell most of them could be dominican(spanish). Thats seriously racist.

Sep 28, 2009
2:48 pm
#11 cmongood :

This will be the only time I adress this issue because obviously some of you all don't read. I said it would have been nice to see Jeremih use a black girl in a video that was so classy and tasteful. The girl he used was beautiful. As far as for the female black image of self it would have been nice to see a video where a man catered to his woman on her birthday instead of tipping her and smacking her ass in the club like we've been seeing all year. I appreciate you all leaving your comments but you're wrong. I'm not racist I just thought it would have been nice.

Also, I think people who leave anonymous comments are lame and should go that way –> Thanks!

Nov 24, 2009
1:58 am
#12 joy :

the problem really is with the young black community. as long as they keep objectifying their beautiful women– you will hardly see a video with a positive black woman fully dressed. unfortunately it has to be screamed by those artists that are considered by others as whack or lame– try checking out "Go" by Common and or "I'm Cheating"– those are nice!
I wanted to side with my beautiful Brasilian sister- and to all those that can understand. . . Latinos can be Black — I'm sure Jeremih wasn't trying to find a lady with lighter skin– maybe just a beautiful lady–

Mar 2, 2010
1:08 am
#13 Skytz :

That’s exactly what I was looking for! Thank you!

Jun 14, 2010
4:26 am
#14 lamia :

the person that said, light skinned girls are sexier, you can go fuvk yourself, everyone is beautiful, and dark skinned women are beautiful, just staop with this light skin, dark skin thing, ITS ANNOYIN, AND GROW UP

Jul 14, 2010
9:00 am
#15 Jodice :

The only issue I had was not the color of the girl, but how it was not believable that such a hot girl would go for him. It was kind of gross.

Author Jul 14, 2010
9:58 am
#16 cmongood :

Now that’s funny! ha!

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