Comments on: Friday Love Notes: Is It Better To Be A Jump Off Or A Wife?

By: Sophe

Sophe — Wed, 10 Mar 2010 06:22:28 +0000

Yes Mam, become “0″ means to humble yourself and be LOVE-centric rather than EGO-centric. Love and live without expecting anything in return. Put God and others before yourself…but of course be strong and discerning, don’t let others take advantage or walk all over you…lol

That’s the solution to this prob and many if not all others.

-Sophe;)

By: Bus

Bus — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 01:02:07 +0000

True, its like the 80′s when they flooded areas with crack and guns so we’d eventually kill each other,this is like the new crack generation, but with relationships,Lol.

By: Dom

Dom — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 00:36:31 +0000

Boo! That’s like saying you aren’t getting something from the transaction. You’re getting sex too! Cmon, now. What y’all got is no more important than what we’ve got.

Trust is for the trustworthy. Aint too many fitting that bill. And in a climate where everyone is for self first, might as well get in where you fit in.

By: cmongood

cmongood — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 00:28:19 +0000

I agree but unfortunately these fabricated tv, magazine and radio love stories are raising the children an in absence of a strong realistic foundation. When I say children i men all of us because we’re gonna be soft in the head and still learning til the day we pass. smh.

By: Dom

Dom — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 00:24:15 +0000

I aint married no mo’!

By: cmongood

cmongood — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 00:21:10 +0000

Why are you bitter? I thought marriage was the epitome of success and happiness for you.

By: Dom

Dom — Tue, 09 Mar 2010 00:18:27 +0000

Fuck that, Broham. I’ve been there, done that. Being forthright has nothing to do with it.

Jumpoffs >>>>> Typical wife situation.

If you’re lucky enough to find love, then you’re lucky. If you’re even luckier and are able to hold on to it, that’s fantastic. In many ways, for many people, it might be ideal. MIGHT be.

Romance itself is a beautiful thing. That said, I’d much rather have someone I can spend an incredible evening with that I know will be LEAVING before I take my ass to bed.

By: Bus

Bus — Mon, 08 Mar 2010 19:41:10 +0000

This is my opinion, there is no feelings involved when it comes to jump offs. if you know a guy’s situation (Married) but you still make a conscious decision to have sexual relationship with the dude and you catch feelings, that is your own fault. If a dude wanted to leave his life and be with you, he would. Till that happens, you are just a sexual object, like a blow-up doll in the back of the closet on the left behind the church suits. If thats the kind of woman you like to be, then by all means,be a jump off. Alot of these dudes these days are showing these jump offs too much love/ feelings, and that changes the whole dynamic of the relationship. Im not saying they dont deserve love, but that situation is one big lie. Dude does not give a damn about you, and he DAMN sure aint trusting you with his estate. Trust is a big deal. The WIFE gets that privilege.

Every time a person whose famous is involved in a “scandal” like this, everybody panics. If You are going to change your whole life,morals,and all your values based off something you seen on tv,read online or magazine,that right there shows you have serious problems. We live in a world where even Reality shows are fabricated. We dont know the ins and outs of anyone in the spotlight’s relationships,especially not these days. YOU ARE NOT THEM. Worry about your own.

There is nothing wrong with expecting the best in a relationship, but there is something wrong with you if you expect a perfect relationship.

By: DJ Hills

DJ Hills — Mon, 08 Mar 2010 18:57:39 +0000

Ladies being a wife is way better than being a jump off. Its simple God made you to be a treasure to men, not to be a piece of ass. Dont let no man disrespect you by just taking sex with no tradeoff and money is not the tradeoff. God made women to accompany and man through life, serve your purpose find the man that loves you and makes feel like a Queen. He will cherish you and make you feel like the best women in the world. Men respect what respects themselves…that simple. If you let him throw money to get your panties off he’s not going to respect you.Sex is something that can be taught to make it good…Love teaches…try it and I bet God blesses beyond your imagination…

By: glossandpumps

glossandpumps — Mon, 08 Mar 2010 17:09:49 +0000

Personally, I would never like to be considered a “jumpoff”. I believe in a relationships being whatever works for the person. Maybe, one person is fun and great but not meant to be in a marriage. Marriage isn’t meant for everyone. But, marriage is still an important constitution for a lot of people (including men). About money…that really depends on the individual as well. I am thrilled to see my partner grow as a person as well as in success and financially. Some women see potential, some want it all up front. It’s every womans choice to make herself.