I am not on the Fantasia pity party train.  I believe that you create your own reality and if you make your bed you lie in it.  You don’t complain, cry and wait for some hero to come and put a smile on your face and make all your pain …

Like in your dreams.  But little do you know that when your back is turned, your man can turn into a whole new person and he no longer belongs to just you.   This issue has been irritating me.  Guys who say that they love you and the second you’re …

The battle for control has been the cause for rocky relationships since before christ, smh.  So I know the Bible says that woman is supposed to submit to her man. And I’m all for the man being the “head of the household” (or at least letting him believe he is). …

Balancing friends and a monogamous relationship can be a difficult task.  You want to stay loyal to your girls while being able to spend quality time with your boo.  If you go out with the ladies, your man will be salty about that and if you stay in with him, …

While driving to work one day (in my 2 door car with no baby seat) it hit me.  I’m edging closer to 30, I’m still single and I’m perfectly ok with that.  In the middle of the night last week, I received a  text from a friend who was pregnant the last …

The media keeps ripping apart black women with different reasons why we cant’ find a man and we won’t get married.  Everyone has had their own experiences and relationships and it is wrong to streotype any group of people by the missteps made by a few.  No matter what color you …